compact105

Ok, I'm going to try to be brief. My friend and her boyfriend are sort of on a break. They've been together for about 7 years. They've had commitment issues and also she found out he was talking to this 20 year old girl (we're in our early 30's). Ok, so this past Saturday I was out at a restaurant on a date, and I saw him sitting in a booth with a girl next to him, and another couple across from them. I went over and said hello. He smiled, hugged me, and we chatted for about a minute. No introductions regarding other people. Then I left. Well later that night I sent my friend a text and told her I had seen him. She asked me where and I told her. She then asked me who he was with and I said "two girls and a guy". Well, she told him and now he's writing me these hateful emails... Saying I'm a fake and a horrible friend because not only did I hurt him, I also hurt my friend. My friend understands that I meant no harm. But, am I wrong for telling my friend? I'll admit, at first I was like, hell yes I'm telling my friend. But I didn't know who the girl was he was with. For all I know, it could have been his sister!!!

WHAT DID I DO WRONG??? This is really bothering me.... please give me honest opinions... thanks

Char

i wouldve doen the exact same thing!
ignore that guy!
he'll calm down and even if he doesn't, who cares?
u were doing the rivght thing!
good job!
*good luck!!! <3*

annav

i don't think u did anything wrong by telling your friend he was with another guy and 2 girls. you were repeating what u saw. its not like u were gossiping or anything. but if they are on a break he is entitled to see people. of course as u said it is unclear who the girl was so he may not have been on a date or anything like that. u definitely didn't do anything wrong by telling your friend. u were just watching out for her. u shouldn't feel guilty at all. clearly he is just confused and needs to take his anger out on someone. just realize u didn't do anything to further damage their relationship. i think u should just let it go and leave the drama between him and your friend. good luck!

ALBERTH

When both people in a "break up" are your friends you have to be very tactful. I'm not saying you did anything wrong, but people are very defensive in these kinds of situations. You may have maybe not mentioned it, or if your friend is more important to you, know that the guys feelings or trust with you could be hurt. Any kind of talk, no matter how Innocent always brings question to their minds about your loyalty, and maybe what was really said or not said. That's just the way it is. You may want to completely apologize for "interfering" or whatever your words are, to him. Maybe you can just say I didn't mean any harm by it or I am sorry I didn't mean to hurt you at all.

josh

When my friend and I went to the party without the consent of his boy friend,
his boyfriend hates me because he got jelous.

tunn

My friends Boyfriend is always talking dirt about me to anyone who will listen for no good reason at all.

russ

My boyfriends friend hates my guts and always slags me off to anybody but wont say it to me...